Cheating Husband Behavior Signs

Cheating Husband Behavior Signs

Have you noticed any of this behavior?

There are some common signs to look for if you're concerned that your spouse is being unfaithful.

- You start receiving hang up calls on the phone.

The other person might be calling to see if your partner will answer. If you don't have caller id - get it. Then you can see who the hang up calls are coming from. You may choose to call the number back and see if you recognize the voice. If you do this, call from a pay phone so that your number isn't recognized.

- Your spouse starts working a lot of hours or taking a lot of business trips.

See what you can do to verify your spouse's whereabouts. If they're going out of town, be sure to get an itinerary. Try calling the hotel room when he wouldn't expect it; maybe an hour after you've talked and said goodnight for the evening.

- Your spouse stops wearing their wedding ring.

Unless something such as a dramatic weight gain or weight loss has occurred, it's suspicious if your partner suddenly stops wearing a wedding ring.

- Interest in sex is lacking.

If your partner's sex drive suddenly declines significantly, it could be a big sign that something's going on. Some people are simply not interested in their spouse sexually once they have a new partner; others feel too guilty to have sex with their spouse when they're sleeping with someone else. Be aware that a decline in sex drive can be caused by stress, medication, or other issues as well.

- You lose access to bills.

If you suddenly no longer have access to the cell phone bill, the home phone bill or your spouse's credit card bill, it could be a sign that there's something on those bills they don't want you to see.

- Your spouse suddenly wants to try new sexual techniques.

It is a paradox of affairs that a cheater will often have a renewed interest in sex with you. If your partner hasn't indicated a desire to work on your sex life, you might well wonder whether he or she learned these techniques elsewhere.

- The emphasis on your partners appearance increases, they join a gym, etc.

Unless this is part of a desire to get healthy decided on by the both of you, your partner might be interested in looking good for someone else.

- You begin to get showered with gifts.

If your spouse is suddenly away from home more than usual, but brings you a gift nearly every time they come home, your partner could be buying you gifts both to ease the guilt and to avoid making you suspicious.

Cheating Husband Behavior Signs

If your spouse is demonstrating some of the above behaviors, you may have legitimate cause to worry. Take time to examine your relationship and see if there are clues as to why your spouse might be looking elsewhere; though there are certainly situations where there don't seem to be any concrete reasons why people cheat.

If you believe your spouse is cheating, it may be wise to look for some evidence before you confront them. Many cheating spouses will tell you that it's "just your imagination" when you confront them with your suspicions. If you want to get to the bottom of the situation once and for all, confronting your partner with evidence is the best way. Find those hidden cell phone bills. Read personal emails, Check into travel arrangements for those "business trips".

Infidelity in a marriage is one of the most devastating things we can face. But, until you know once and for all whether or not your spouse is really cheating, you can't deal with the situation and try to recover. Intuition is often right on target; if you think something is wrong and your spouse is displaying cheating behavior, there's a good chance you're right. So, take the time to find out what's really going on in your marriage so that you can get on with your life.

Cheating Husband Behavior Signs
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